An Ignominious Outing

My Uncle Johnny V was awhile ago “ outed” by his only heterosexual wife of about twenty years. Since my own family and I are open minded we often invited him and his dates to our home for dinner. But he’s not exactly, how do I say, shy?  He tells the joke on himself  “ how do you fit four “faggots” on a bar stool. His reply to I don’t  know : “ turn it upside down” .  LOL or AF ?